A how-to-do-webinars webinar from Zoom told me that I should repeat questions three times in order to get the attention of the participants.
Three times. Webinars are so annoying right? No one pays attention!
This week reminded me that getting things wrong is far more common than getting it right.
There are so many many many ways to get it wrong! And only one way to get it right.
That’s how it is. I’m going to have to come back around and do it again to get it right. First pancake is always a disaster? It’s not just pancakes, I fear.
First time is not the charm. If I’ve ever gotten it right the first time it was a fluke.
And yet. I hate making mistakes.
Some mistakes are barely noticeable. Drop a cookie? 5 second rule, pick it up and I’m back on my way.
Some mistakes hurt. They hurt me and they hurt others. I know that crushing disappointment in myself: regret and shame.
How do I make it right? What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I get it right?
Didn’t I just finish saying that mistakes are inevitable? I still feel like there is something wrong with ME. How do I grapple with this?
This is how the world works. Mercifully, there is a corollary system: resiliency. We can recover and heal from mistakes. With patience and goodwill, things get on track.
Do-overs have to be part of the plan. And do-overs can include doing it over as something completely different. There is more than one way to do is right the second time.
With persistence, there will be a way to get to good.
It’s not helpful to have a get-it-right-right-now expectation. I will be disappointed.
I have to plan on a few tries. And keep trying.