womanly flow

Have you read _flow_? it talks about that state of perfect challenge, a blissful state of doing something *just* hard enough to be interesting and to have a chance at success…And the place where we are most likely to achieve that satisfaction is in our JOB.
I love my daughter, but I do not like being a mother. I mean, almost all of the activities of being a mother are very drudgey.
I love the right sort of mental challenge. And wifing and mothering…not that kind of challenge.
So. arranging the flowers in the bouquet of my life…how do I fit all these in?
How do i arrange it to be pleasing to me?