{"id":1472,"date":"2012-01-11T08:39:27","date_gmt":"2012-01-11T15:39:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=1472"},"modified":"2012-05-24T09:27:32","modified_gmt":"2012-05-24T16:27:32","slug":"dont-be-a-hero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/01\/dont-be-a-hero\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t be a hero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday in a toastmaster&#8217;s meeting, the speaker was talking about new year&#8217;s resolutions and goals. She was encouraging us, reaching deep to instpire.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Imagine this: What would it look like if you were to be a hero a year from now?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I know she was trying for us to do positive reinforcement. But for me&#8230;&#8221;hero&#8217;&#8230;It is a tired word.<\/p>\n<p>HEROIC is an adjective that seems always to be followed by &#8220;Sacrifice&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Billy, Don&#8217;t be a Hero. I&#8217;m not wanting to be a hero. You know, maybe I&#8217;m retiring from being a hero.<\/p>\n<p>Not for my current crop of associates.<\/p>\n<p>I was telling chris about this. He said &#8220;If you throw yourself on the grenade and nobody knows it&#8217;s a grenade, what does it get you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Exactly.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m tired of the dirty knees and grenade absorption. All the others who&#8217;ve seen me throw myself on the ground just keep thinking I&#8217;m an idiot.<\/p>\n<p>Fight your own grenades. i don&#8217;t want it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>But if I don&#8217;t want to be a hero, what then?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday in a toastmaster&#8217;s meeting, the speaker was talking about new year&#8217;s resolutions and goals. She was encouraging us, reaching deep to instpire. &#8220;Imagine this: What would it look like if you were to be a hero a year from &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/01\/dont-be-a-hero\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[22,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bookworthy","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1472","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1472"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1472\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}