{"id":1513,"date":"2012-04-05T14:15:16","date_gmt":"2012-04-05T21:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=1513"},"modified":"2012-04-05T14:15:16","modified_gmt":"2012-04-05T21:15:16","slug":"the-heart-of-the-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/04\/the-heart-of-the-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"The heart of the matter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am realizing that I don&#8217;t have to be the hero all the time.<\/p>\n<p>I have some uncooperative people in my life, who are STOPPING me from doing what I want to do.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s ridiculous! Why wouldn&#8217;t I get what i need from these guys? Why are they not letting me get there?<\/p>\n<p>THEY want to be the ones who look like superstars, and if I have to look like an idiot to make them look good, then they are fine with that.<\/p>\n<p>This would have driven me crazy, once.<\/p>\n<p>but I am thinking, maybe they want to be the hero of this story.<\/p>\n<p>and maybe, i am thinking, I am the hero of a different story.<\/p>\n<p>I gotta go get in the right story.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am realizing that I don&#8217;t have to be the hero all the time. I have some uncooperative people in my life, who are STOPPING me from doing what I want to do. And it&#8217;s ridiculous! Why wouldn&#8217;t I get &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/04\/the-heart-of-the-matter\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1513"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1513\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}