{"id":1864,"date":"2012-07-25T21:43:56","date_gmt":"2012-07-26T04:43:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=1864"},"modified":"2012-07-25T21:43:56","modified_gmt":"2012-07-26T04:43:56","slug":"frustration-transparency","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/07\/frustration-transparency\/","title":{"rendered":"frustration transparency"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am discovering something I am not pleased with. I love to talk, I like to visit with people. I let my opinions dangle off my sleeves.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not hard to find out what I think of something.<\/p>\n<p>And when I am asked a question, I answer it too fully. Especially in what I consider to be a casual situation.<\/p>\n<p>But. I am thinking I need to build a few more defenses. It would be good if I could take my frustrations and put them aside, and give a convincing reply.<\/p>\n<p>If I hear of something I am not happy about, i can say &#8220;How about that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But today someone saw through that. He understood exactly what I did not say.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t want him to understand what I did not say.<\/p>\n<p>But.<\/p>\n<p>I will have to find a way to sell myself on thinking differently, if it behooves me to do so.<\/p>\n<p>because i can&#8217;t be so readable.<\/p>\n<p>I am not sure how to do it. I will have to come up with a method.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am discovering something I am not pleased with. I love to talk, I like to visit with people. I let my opinions dangle off my sleeves. It&#8217;s not hard to find out what I think of something. And when &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/07\/frustration-transparency\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1864"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1866,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864\/revisions\/1866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}