{"id":1890,"date":"2012-08-06T21:21:12","date_gmt":"2012-08-07T04:21:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=1890"},"modified":"2012-08-06T21:21:12","modified_gmt":"2012-08-07T04:21:12","slug":"sense-of-where-you-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/08\/sense-of-where-you-are\/","title":{"rendered":"sense of where you are"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My dental hygienist gave me a lecture today after cleaning my teeth.<\/p>\n<p>I felt bad for a while, but then I thought, Hey, take a chill pill. I brush and floss 99% of the time. What more do you want from me? And since I do those things, the rest is pretty much luck.<\/p>\n<p>So get off my back.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, no one is perfect. These dentist people <em>know <\/em> that which is why they get to be on their high and mighty. <\/p>\n<p>I am not buying it. Yes, I could get all guilty about that 1% that I don&#8217;t floss. OR I could get all worried about how maybe I didn&#8217;t brush long enough.<\/p>\n<p>BUT I DON&#8221;T BUY IT.<\/p>\n<p>Dentists are in a great position. I cannot look and judge for myself how my teeth are doing. I don&#8217;t know how to gauge the health of my gums.<\/p>\n<p>So I don&#8217;t know how dire the situation is. I may need to have all my teeth pulled out by the end of the year.<\/p>\n<p>Or I may be guilted into getting my teeth cleaned 3 times a year instead of the perfectly adequate 2.<\/p>\n<p>But because I have no way of knowing, I am powerless. I don&#8217;t like that. And I don&#8217;t like that I am being taken advantage of, in ways I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>That is a basic human trait, you know. Knowing whether something is right. My toddler knows whether it is right or not. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No Mommy! I need a FORK for mac&#038;cheese&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She knows it is meant to be eaten with a fork. That&#8217;s the right way.<\/p>\n<p>All of us know, inside ourselves, at a very early age, what is right and what is not.<\/p>\n<p>That must be honored in all human interaction. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My dental hygienist gave me a lecture today after cleaning my teeth. I felt bad for a while, but then I thought, Hey, take a chill pill. I brush and floss 99% of the time. What more do you want &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2012\/08\/sense-of-where-you-are\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1890","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1890","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1890"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1890\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1891,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1890\/revisions\/1891"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1890"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1890"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1890"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}