{"id":2911,"date":"2013-10-09T13:24:22","date_gmt":"2013-10-09T20:24:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=2911"},"modified":"2013-10-09T13:24:39","modified_gmt":"2013-10-09T20:24:39","slug":"stroke-a-pose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2013\/10\/stroke-a-pose\/","title":{"rendered":"Strike a pose"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chris took a picture of me yesterday. I didn&#8217;t want him to. <\/p>\n<p>He showed it to me later. He was excited to show me because he liked it. And he liked how I looked.<\/p>\n<p>When I saw it I hated it. I wanted to point out all my flaws and ugliness.<\/p>\n<p>I stopped myself. I asked him what he liked about it.<\/p>\n<p>I listened. Because what he said was telling me what he liked about ME.<\/p>\n<p>So I listened. I took two mental steps back to stand still and listen <\/p>\n<p>I want to practice letting him love me without my tidying up first<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chris took a picture of me yesterday. I didn&#8217;t want him to. He showed it to me later. He was excited to show me because he liked it. And he liked how I looked. When I saw it I hated &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2013\/10\/stroke-a-pose\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2911"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2913,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911\/revisions\/2913"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}