{"id":3017,"date":"2013-12-11T12:35:31","date_gmt":"2013-12-11T19:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=3017"},"modified":"2013-12-11T12:35:31","modified_gmt":"2013-12-11T19:35:31","slug":"if-its-not-helping-its-in-the-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2013\/12\/if-its-not-helping-its-in-the-way\/","title":{"rendered":"If it&#8217;s not helping it&#8217;s in the way"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So my job is in the medical field.  And I very seldom have to do actual medical things<\/p>\n<p>Today I got to spend time looking at a new technology in an emergency room.<br \/>\nNobody wants to go to an emergency room.  Well that&#8217;s not true some people do. Some people work there<\/p>\n<p>Today I worked there<\/p>\n<p>A woman came in and maybe she had a stroke. Her family was there and they were worried about her. She was a little worried about herself too<\/p>\n<p>I was so worried about her and her family. When she described her symptoms I started to wonder if I was having those symptoms. I thought oh this is me having an empathic reaction<\/p>\n<p>I realized I could do nothing to help these people. Other people were doing everything to help them. I asked myself &#8220;is my empathy helping these people? &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>No it was not. <\/p>\n<p>So I decided to stop. That feeling was not necessary and in fact it was hurting me<\/p>\n<p>I may use that question in other areas of my life<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So my job is in the medical field. And I very seldom have to do actual medical things Today I got to spend time looking at a new technology in an emergency room. Nobody wants to go to an emergency &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2013\/12\/if-its-not-helping-its-in-the-way\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3017"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3017\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3018,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3017\/revisions\/3018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}