{"id":3734,"date":"2015-06-10T12:22:41","date_gmt":"2015-06-10T19:22:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=3734"},"modified":"2015-06-08T22:06:28","modified_gmt":"2015-06-09T05:06:28","slug":"believability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2015\/06\/believability\/","title":{"rendered":"Believability\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I picked a book on CD to listen to with Veronica on our trip to Solvang. I thought it would keep her occupied and entertained on the long ride.<\/p>\n<p>As it happened, she slept and threw up, and slept the rest of the way. She told me she thought the book was too long.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d found a recording of Glenn Close reading the Newberry award winner <em>Sarah, Plain and Tall.<\/em> The set had the sequels <em>Skylark <\/em>and <em>Caleb&#8217;s Story<\/em> as well.<\/p>\n<p>The award winner was pretty good. But when Caleb started with his story it broke down. The author Patricia MacLachlan stretched it too far. See, it is a kids&#8217; story and I can see that she was pandering to her audience. Spoiler alert: Caleb&#8217;s grandfather shows up at their farm after having high tailed it out of there when Caleb&#8217;s daddy was little. Daddy can&#8217;t welcome grandpa, and keeps saying, &#8220;You never even wrote!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In a heroic move, Caleb discovers that his grandfather is illiterate and secretly teaches him to read. That way he can FINALLY write his grown son the letter he&#8217;d been waiting for.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How very convenient. That answer is too pat, and I don&#8217;t think it really addresses the complexity of the situation.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But this is a kid&#8217;s book, and a fantasy fulfillment for a kid.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a little too old to believe it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A friend and I were talking about work this weekend. She was talking about her terrible boss, who asks her to do things, then when she presents her work tells her she&#8217;s done it wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And when I have an idea of what needs to be done, and I share it, it will be immediately put down as a terrible idea. I have a one-year rule, wait a year and then suggest again. It will often be taken then.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How do you handle this? How can you let it go at the end of the day, when this boss is telling you that you did it all wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>She said, among other things, she knew better than to believe her.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I wish I were old enough to consistently disbelieve the negative things people say to me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; I picked a book on CD to listen to with Veronica on our trip to Solvang. I thought it would keep her occupied and entertained on the long ride. 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