{"id":4349,"date":"2017-07-13T07:47:06","date_gmt":"2017-07-13T14:47:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=4349"},"modified":"2017-07-13T07:47:06","modified_gmt":"2017-07-13T14:47:06","slug":"privilege-check","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2017\/07\/privilege-check\/","title":{"rendered":"Privilege Check"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This weekend was HOT. The West Coast is suffering. I grew up in Alaska, so the extreme temperature there was COLD. In extremes of temperature, on both sides of the spectrum, the way to cope is to stay indoors.<\/p>\n<p>Enclosed in my house, I looked for something to watch on TV, and discovered that a second season of Poldark was available.<\/p>\n<p>Hooray! Poldark is a period piece that is basically a romance novel come to life. A vastly handsome young British Lord who falls on hard times. The plot is very melodramatic, but the people and the dresses are so beautiful it is very good entertainment.<\/p>\n<p>The nobleman hero Poldark does marry a commoner (swoon!) and because he has fallen on hard times, both of them must work very hard.<\/p>\n<p>So Demelza has to straddle both worlds, working as hard as a servant sometimes but still being the lady of the house.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that I find unrealistic about these shows is how the ladies do their hair. Demelza is beautiful with HuGe free-flowing red wavy hair. It&#8217;s magnificent, and as she travels the coastline to fish or gather driftwood to feed the fire, she leaves it free to blow in the wind.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>As a woman with magnificent hair, every time I watch her picturesque windblown hair I rage. It would be a complete rats nest after a day walking in the wind like that! How ridiculous! She would tie it back, cover it or at least braid it so that she didn&#8217;t have to spend an hour trying to comb it into civility after she returns indoors.<\/p>\n<p>That part is so unreal.<\/p>\n<p>There was another part where Demelza took a walk along the beach because her lord husband did something that disturbed her.<\/p>\n<p>I remembered she was straddling the lady\/servant role. She did have servants, but not enough to keep body and soul together. Their 17th century wood fire heating and fish meals required a lot of work. Many times she would have to go to the shore to get those two materials.<\/p>\n<p>But this time, she was the lady of the house. The activity of walking on the beach because you needed to think was a highly privileged activity. For people who had to work tirelessly for their food, that kind of luxury was unheard of.<\/p>\n<p>Only people with servants had that kind of freedom.<\/p>\n<p>This occurred to me as I was sitting in my boudoir, with my laptop on my lap and the AC keeping me cool as I spent my Saturday binge-watching season two of Poldark.<\/p>\n<p>I have a lot of freedom.<\/p>\n<p>I have a lot of privilege.<\/p>\n<p>I even have a lot of product for my hair to keep it civilized if I want to let it wave free instead of tying it back.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a good time to be alive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This weekend was HOT. The West Coast is suffering. I grew up in Alaska, so the extreme temperature there was COLD. In extremes of temperature, on both sides of the spectrum, the way to cope is to stay indoors. 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