{"id":4429,"date":"2018-01-03T21:47:12","date_gmt":"2018-01-04T04:47:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=4429"},"modified":"2017-12-30T12:50:42","modified_gmt":"2017-12-30T19:50:42","slug":"with-a-bang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2018\/01\/with-a-bang\/","title":{"rendered":"with a bang"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy new year, readers! It&#8217;s 2018, how did that happen?<\/p>\n<p>Whaaatttt?!<\/p>\n<p>Time to think about what it is I&#8217;m doing with my years, as they stack up.\u00a0 I did a new years ceremony with some friends, and we all came up with our WORD for the year. how we each want to show up and be in the next year.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s funny. At this point, I have crossed off a lot of the definable goals. Graduated from college. Have a husband, daughter and a mortgage, not in that order.<\/p>\n<p>I have published a book. More than one.<\/p>\n<p>I have a career.<\/p>\n<p>So now it&#8217;s more about how I want to feel.<\/p>\n<p>Have you seen that video of Jim Carrey talking? He says &#8220;I wish everyone could be rich and famous, so they could see that it isn&#8217;t the answer to anything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well, damn. So what is?<\/p>\n<p>All those things I felt like I had to have, like i couldn&#8217;t be me until i had them&#8211;the achievements and statuses&#8211;what now?<\/p>\n<p>Me and my friends wanted to think about what we wanted to feel like. How we wanted to experience life.<\/p>\n<p>This is a new idea for me.\u00a0Is it because I have reached a certain age? Or is the whole zeitgeist coming to realize this?<\/p>\n<p>The phrase is &#8220;core desired feelings.&#8221;\u00a0 How does my life make me feel? Is that how I want to feel? If not, can I do something to change it?<\/p>\n<p>Guess what my word is. I choose:<\/p>\n<p>EXPLOSION<\/p>\n<p>Go big or go home! But still, they way I think about it is that explosions have to be very strategic or they are not effective.<\/p>\n<p>I want to explode on my days and in my life with precision, to make an IMPACT.<\/p>\n<p>that requires directing my energy and then<\/p>\n<p>BAM<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how I want to live in 2018. That&#8217;s how I want to feel.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy new year, readers! It&#8217;s 2018, how did that happen? Whaaatttt?! Time to think about what it is I&#8217;m doing with my years, as they stack up.\u00a0 I did a new years ceremony with some friends, and we all came &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2018\/01\/with-a-bang\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4429","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4429","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4429"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4429\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4430,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4429\/revisions\/4430"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4429"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4429"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4429"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}