{"id":4518,"date":"2018-07-04T12:41:26","date_gmt":"2018-07-04T19:41:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=4518"},"modified":"2018-07-01T21:41:44","modified_gmt":"2018-07-02T04:41:44","slug":"life-design","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2018\/07\/life-design\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Design"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve just started reading Tim Ferris&#8217;s The Four-Hour Work Week.<\/p>\n<p>I know, it was popular quite a while ago and now might be as dated as Vanilla Ice.<\/p>\n<p>But I picked it up, and am slowly making my way through it.<\/p>\n<p>He says, you may think you want to be a millionaire, but what you really want is to live like a millionaire.<\/p>\n<p>I have a lot of friends who live or aspire to live what is called the &#8220;digital nomad&#8221; lifestyle. That means, if you have a laptop and Internet you can live anywhere and take advantage of what the world has to offer.<\/p>\n<p>This is not new. That&#8217;s what Hemingway and Picasso did in Paris. Paris was super cheap to live in after world war one, and attracted a lot of artists.<\/p>\n<p>People with Internet businesses are finding that they can live much cheaper and better in tropical Asia.<\/p>\n<p>Which is fine, if that is what you enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>My family and I do not want that kind of life. I like having a family, and a community of people right here in my little town.<\/p>\n<p>I have moved a LOT as an adult, and when I moved here I made a conscious choice to stay.<\/p>\n<p>So, if I had all the money in the world, I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d move. And that&#8217;s awesome!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not a fan of complacency. But since I&#8217;ve found something I really like, I don&#8217;t need to change it just because.<\/p>\n<p>I want to live an examined life. I have thought it over, and the benefits of being a digital nomad (as much as I love travel) don&#8217;t exceed the value of having my roots where I am.<\/p>\n<p>I have a finite amount of time. How much is not given me to know. But what I have is precious, so I want to do the things I enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>In The Happiness Project, Gretchen Rubin says that if you are happy, but not aware of how happy you are, you are missing out.<\/p>\n<p>Cherishing the things I&#8217;ve chosen is a precious gift. I love my front door, the particular red paint I chose for it. As I acknowledge that happiness, I can relive it every time.<\/p>\n<p>Although I have barely started Ferris&#8217;s book, I can see that we agree on some things. Don&#8217;t let your assumptions and habits trap you. We are free to design our lives.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s also fine to look at your life and discover you have most of what you want.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a pretty great realization.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve just started reading Tim Ferris&#8217;s The Four-Hour Work Week. I know, it was popular quite a while ago and now might be as dated as Vanilla Ice. 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