{"id":462,"date":"2004-02-16T21:05:16","date_gmt":"2004-02-17T04:05:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=462"},"modified":"2012-05-08T08:48:50","modified_gmt":"2012-05-08T15:48:50","slug":"decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2004\/02\/decisions\/","title":{"rendered":"Decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Valentine&#8217;s day and President&#8217;s day are very close to one another.<\/p>\n<p>Chris was saying, &#8220;I wish they had left the President&#8217;s days separate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t like it being so generic? You mean we should not celebrate all Presidents?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well! It doesn&#8217;t seem fair that the guy who caught the flu on his inauguration day and died two weeks in office should be celebrated as much as the other presidents&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Being president is something Americans are all supposed to be able to aspire to. How many American babies are cooed over in their cribs, and hear the pronouncement, &#8220;maybe this one will grow up to be president.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, This is america, the place where you can carve your own destiny. ANYONE can grow up to be president.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder how many presidents aspired to the office? If they are like most people I know, the choice of becoming president was not really their own. They may have started along a political path and just sort of pushed, bumped, promoted along until they got to the White House.<\/p>\n<p>Huge life decisions are not made that way. Decisions are made before you know you&#8217;ve made them. Swerve one way or the other, and your feet have changed paths.<\/p>\n<p>The decision comes later. When it comes, it is less of a &#8220;will I go?&#8221; question, and more of a &#8220;Will I stop going?&#8221; question.<\/p>\n<p>I think love is the same way. The small decisions are often unseen. Will you be my valentine? How often is that question asked when the answer is not known?<\/p>\n<p>I think most decisions come after the fact. The momentous changes in direction are never recognized until they are past.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Valentine&#8217;s day and President&#8217;s day are very close to one another. Chris was saying, &#8220;I wish they had left the President&#8217;s days separate.&#8221; &#8220;You don&#8217;t like it being so generic? You mean we should not celebrate all Presidents?&#8221; &#8220;Well! It &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2004\/02\/decisions\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-attempts-at-profundity","category-bookworthy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=462"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}