{"id":6271,"date":"2023-06-14T12:14:00","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T19:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=6271"},"modified":"2023-06-11T15:08:00","modified_gmt":"2023-06-11T22:08:00","slug":"boundaries-and-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2023\/06\/boundaries-and-goals\/","title":{"rendered":"boundaries and goals"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Games are something people do. I\u2019m not sure if animals do it. We set up rules, which are basically constraints to accomplishing a goal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Look at this ball\u2026It bounces. Can I bounce it this way? How about with only one hand? Maybe I can\u2019t touch it with my hands to move it at all. How hard would it be to get it to the goal then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kids come up with little games all the time. They learn more complicated games and pass them on. The common thread is to create obstacles to doing a relatively simple thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it takes others to do the game. Sometimes it is a game against myself, a personal best. But there is that goal to reach for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Games are human nature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I am chafing against a constraint. This restriction wasn\u2019t MY idea. I am struggling and burning against the boundary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not a game. It\u2019s an affliction. I did not choose this. It was thrust upon me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I would not have chosen this, but since it is upon me, I can choose how I see it. What if I could make it a game?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What is possible for me in this space? With this time, these resources of strength and stamina, what can I do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019d better pick carefully. It will only hold a certain amount.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am wasting my energy on resentment and anger. I can shift to what is possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What can I build? What needs to be fortified?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taking inventory and tracking my personal to-do lists are part of the game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Resources I have taken for granted are denied. How do I resupply? What can I do with what I have?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let the game commence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Games are something people do. I\u2019m not sure if animals do it. We set up rules, which are basically constraints to accomplishing a goal. Look at this ball\u2026It bounces. Can I bounce it this way? How about with only one &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2023\/06\/boundaries-and-goals\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6271"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6273,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6271\/revisions\/6273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}