{"id":6704,"date":"2024-12-18T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-18T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=6704"},"modified":"2024-12-15T17:29:44","modified_gmt":"2024-12-16T00:29:44","slug":"just-in-time-to-ruin-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2024\/12\/just-in-time-to-ruin-everything\/","title":{"rendered":"Just in time to ruin everything"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Christmas is a week away!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am I ready?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Have I learned to be the Christmas character that I would like to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a lot of traditional stories to choose from.&nbsp; I was talking with some lady friends, they were trying to get ready and face the season. I was reminded that Scrooge and the Grinch are among the options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when I think about it, the week before Christmas is the traditional time for disaster to strike? Has your disaster arrived yet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone paid extra for that disaster to come exactly at the right time to ruin Christmas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the stories have the arc, the story does come around. Even Joseph and Mary with their total faith\u2014or on the other side with Scrooge\u2019s cynicism\u2014the story comes around to the lesson and the blessin\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, I couldn\u2019t resist. I was going to say gift, but from the beginning it\u2019s not strictly a gift. The peace on earth, the way-making that Christmas signifies is more than a gift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scrooge\u2019s new perspective on life at the end is better than a gift. He questions his values and arrives at a re-prioritization.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember how Christmas is only a week away? This is a great time for me to question what I think is most important. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can I shed some expectations on myself so that I can spend time with the people I can about?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sure Joseph would have liked to have a nice room and bed for Mary and baby Jesus. That manger was a workaround.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But as it happened, it was exactly as it was supposed to be. And I can let go of what I thought ruined everything. The <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Away_in_a_Manger\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">stars in the sky<\/a> can look down on my workarounds, Bless all the dear children in my tender care and make me more and more fit to have the responsibility.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christmas is a week away! Am I ready? Have I learned to be the Christmas character that I would like to be? There are a lot of traditional stories to choose from.&nbsp; I was talking with some lady friends, they &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2024\/12\/just-in-time-to-ruin-everything\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6704"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6704\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6705,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6704\/revisions\/6705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}