{"id":7115,"date":"2026-09-23T12:31:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-23T19:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=7115"},"modified":"2026-09-21T08:32:03","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T15:32:03","slug":"storms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2026\/09\/storms\/","title":{"rendered":"Storms"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Oh no, my work is asking for a new report and I am not even sure what they want.<br>And are we out of milk? What will my daughter do for breakfast?<br><br>Do I have time before my next meeting to get to the store and back?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband looks at me \u201cI have\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I whip around and glare at him, waiting for him to give me yet another task when I have no time and everyone needs everything from me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He reacts to my attack stance. \u201cI need to tell you something!\u201d<br><br>Deep breath. \u201cI didn\u2019t say anything. I\u2019m listening.\u201d<br>I do not have time for this, I have already missed the maybe-window to run out and get milk, which he seems to be TOTALLY unaware of and the disaster that&nbsp; is looming.<br><br>He looks at me \u201cI\u2019m trying to tell you.\u201d<br><br>Yet MORE time has gone by while he kills time telling me that he\u2019s about to tell me something.<br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cTell me!\u201d<br><br>He tilts his head and takes my hand. \u201cI should show you.\u201d<br><br>Deeper breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is my husband. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>He is not attacking me.<br><br>He leads me to my desk. \u201cI heard you when you were complaining about the bugs flying in. I have a plug-in bug killer that should help.<br><br>I looked up at him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And threw my arms around him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why I do those work projects. It\u2019s why I get the milk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are taking care of each other. And it can be a fight every day. Some days more than others.<br><br>This house is strong. It has stood and will stand through many storms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t have to bring any under my own roof.<br><br>Now he can smile at me. It\u2019s safe again<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThank you baby,\u201dI tell him. \u201cYou are wonderful.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh no, my work is asking for a new report and I am not even sure what they want.And are we out of milk? What will my daughter do for breakfast? Do I have time before my next meeting to &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2026\/09\/storms\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7116,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7115\/revisions\/7116"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}