I knew a woman who had lived in one town for decades. Then she moved to a new address 10miles away. She drove past more than one grocery store to shop at the old store she was used to.
Familiar is so nice. How does it get better than that?
Wanting something better means I have to go outside what’s familiar and try something new.
Years ago me and a friend tried out the neighborhood tennis court. She said she’d played once, and I never had. We found some rackets at a thrift store and some tennis balls and set to it.
I knew what tennis was supposed to look like. Toss up a bouncy green ball in the air. Swat it with a round racket, and the ball sails over the net. The other person runs, swats it back over and a swanlike game ensues.
So I threw the ball up, swung my racket and watched the ball bounce at my feet.
This time throw the ball higher.
I was not good at this. We began to lower our sights from playing a game to just returning a serve.
It was Hard! And I was not good at it.
I never played tennis again.
But that is still one of my favorite memories.
I can try new things. And I can be not very good at it. But I can have a lot of fun and move on.
I might move on to something comfortable and familiar. But I’m willing to try something less convenient too.