{"id":1203,"date":"2008-10-01T11:15:14","date_gmt":"2008-10-01T18:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=1203"},"modified":"2012-05-14T15:14:13","modified_gmt":"2012-05-14T22:14:13","slug":"ben-folds-and-the-suburbia-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2008\/10\/ben-folds-and-the-suburbia-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"Ben Folds and the suburbia experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My sweetheart husband burned a mix CD for me. It is things like this that let me know the honeymoon isn&#8217;t over yet.<\/p>\n<p>Before he determined do to this thing, we were listening in his office to some CDs. He had Ben Folds on. I said &#8220;You know, I love him, but I he is best known for &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=axpuVLQ_m4w\">Brick<\/a>&#8221; which I can&#8217;t stand. It&#8217;s a song that could make you kill yourself!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So, the husband decided to make me a mix of cool Ben Folds songs that were <em>not<\/em> Brick, and he finished it in time for my day of driving. He&#8217;s so Cool.<\/p>\n<p>Ben and Chris, that is.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Folds is a white guy with enough jade in his eye to be clever. I was driving the company van down the road that I take every day back and forth to get to work. The first song on the CD:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QlGCTWL6djo\">Rocking the Suburbs<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I was bopping along listening to him, and thinking I should play the piano more and do more songwriting myself. And I thought, man, I\u00a0am so not this guy. I&#8217;m from WASILLA, for pete&#8217;s sake.<\/p>\n<p>However, I am a lot like the suburb zombie now. I take this same stretch of freeway again and again and again.\u00a0I have often thought\u00a0that there is a special me-shaped groove in the road.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the highway. It did not have any grooves in it. It is a synthetic and flat slab of granite. The anti-yosemite, really.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it&#8217;s me that has the road-shaped groove. I am softer material than this societal infrastructure.<\/p>\n<p>And the two hemispheres of my brain held two thoughts:<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;that&#8217;s a cool poetic thought&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;how cringingly depressing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And maybe those two thoughts are the best way to describe the experience of listening to Ben Folds.<\/p>\n<p>My favorite song so far:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aVrn-VBtuMc\">All U can Eat<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My sweetheart husband burned a mix CD for me. It is things like this that let me know the honeymoon isn&#8217;t over yet. Before he determined do to this thing, we were listening in his office to some CDs. He &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2008\/10\/ben-folds-and-the-suburbia-experience\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[22,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bookworthy","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1203\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}