{"id":5133,"date":"2020-08-11T20:41:36","date_gmt":"2020-08-12T03:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=5133"},"modified":"2020-08-11T20:41:37","modified_gmt":"2020-08-12T03:41:37","slug":"hows-your-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2020\/08\/hows-your-day\/","title":{"rendered":"How&#8217;s your day?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Are you having a good day? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How about a nice day?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think America started this greeting, \u201cHave a nice day!\u201d &nbsp;It replaced the older \u201cHow do you do?\u201d which\nbecame \u201chowdy\u201d before it feel out of use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A day is a tidy package. It\u2019s a handy size: small enough to grapple\nwith, big enough to fit some significant things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We can deal with a day. We can ask about a day, and give our\nwishe\u2026command?&#8230;for others to have a nice day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not insincere. I wish for others to have a nice day, because\nI really want a nice day for myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I would like to put my day to good use, and really enjoy it.\nAnd by enjoy, I mean fill it with productive activity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think about it a lot. What will I do with my day? How will\nI pack it appropriately?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I try. Every day I have intentions, and I start out with ideas\nabout how and when I will do what.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I never quite make it. And I feel particularly guilty about\nit during this quarantine because there is no excuse. I have nowhere else to\nbe, nothing to do but what I set out for myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I still do not hit my target.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I just found this book: <em>Daily Rituals: How Artists Work<\/em>\nby Mason Currey. He\u2019s collected the stories of artists\u2014musicians, writers,\npainters, etc.\u2014how they arranged their days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are short little snapshots, with alcohol featuring\nprominently across many lives. There is not a consistent thread. It feels like\na reality TV show: \u201c At least I don\u2019t do THAT!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These influencers, these famous names, were trying. They had\nweird, often inconsiderate and toxic habits and requirements they performed in\ntheir days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am comforted to know they didn\u2019t hit it either. But the\nrange\u2014Mahler was austere, F. Scott Fitzgerald was a bacchanal\u2014the range gives\nme room to keep trying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m trying. I\u2019m trying to have a good day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s gonna take awhile.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you having a good day? How about a nice day? I think America started this greeting, \u201cHave a nice day!\u201d &nbsp;It replaced the older \u201cHow do you do?\u201d which became \u201chowdy\u201d before it feel out of use. 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