{"id":5358,"date":"2021-02-17T12:00:04","date_gmt":"2021-02-17T19:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=5358"},"modified":"2021-02-15T16:21:53","modified_gmt":"2021-02-15T23:21:53","slug":"striking-past","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2021\/02\/striking-past\/","title":{"rendered":"Striking Past"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My friend put a Valentine\u2019s concert I Facebook. All these classic songs beautifully sung by her and her guitar strumming boyfriend, melting my heart. And they got to an old favorite<\/p>\n<p>I would walk 500 miles and<br \/>\nI would walk 500 more<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m listening to her sweet voice and thinking how strange it is to hear a woman sing that very male love song. Granted, she\u2019s harmonizing with her sweetie but even a that little bit of a shift changed it.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Just to be the man who walk a thousand<br \/>\nMiles to fall down at your door<\/p>\n<p>My daughter has been taking karate and after watching her, I joined an adult class. Her sensei has all the little warriors shout out in unison:<\/p>\n<p>I DO MY BEST<\/p>\n<p>In my class, I do the same. This is not a class for being cute. The teachers ask me for more than I knew I could give. Last week I came to Wednesday class worn out from all the thinky work at my job, ready to do my best. I was weighed down and I knew it, but I was going to power through.<\/p>\n<p>I only tripped a little at the beginning and I kept going. At the very end, I tripped hard. It took a long time to get up. It hurt and I felt so stupid. I had overestimated my best, and hurt myself.<\/p>\n<p>In the Proclaimers song, he overpromised. Not likely to be called upon to make good on his thousand-mile commitment. The point is he will go to the end of his strength for her.<\/p>\n<p>Past what is reasonable. Pushing through the blocks.<\/p>\n<p>I learned after my fall how to get up and keep going after I overshot. Doing my best does me getting up and trying again. Failing, but going for the long haul.<\/p>\n<p>Showing up with love for someone else, doing my best for the one I love or even my own self is what this looks like.<\/p>\n<p>Walking 500 miles and walking 500 more. Or like my Sensei teaches, don\u2019t just strike the target, strike past it and leave all the force where I mean it to go.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not going to be successful every time. But even after I trip, I can get up and do it again and the second strike has a good chance of landing. That\u2019s how love goes when I do my best.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend put a Valentine\u2019s concert I Facebook. All these classic songs beautifully sung by her and her guitar strumming boyfriend, melting my heart. And they got to an old favorite I would walk 500 miles and I would walk &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2021\/02\/striking-past\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5358","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5358","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5358"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5358\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5361,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5358\/revisions\/5361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5358"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5358"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5358"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}