{"id":5427,"date":"2021-03-24T12:02:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-24T19:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=5427"},"modified":"2021-03-21T17:47:43","modified_gmt":"2021-03-22T00:47:43","slug":"for-real-or-for-show","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2021\/03\/for-real-or-for-show\/","title":{"rendered":"For real or for show"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Since she\u2019s doing school at home, Veronica has learned\nsomething very grownup: computers can be wrong. Mostly, they have been wrong in\nways that count against her. Last year she learned the heartbreak of submitting\nan assignment and it did not <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Send.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The world is a little less reliable now that she knows this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While walking the dog, I asked her:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which would you rather have:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To learn something, and have the knowledge, but not get the\ncredit<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OR<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get the credit but not have the knowledge<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The TV series <em>Suits<\/em> starts with the main character\nmaking his living by cheating for hire on the bar exam. He knows it, but has\nbeen expelled for cheating. But he gets a job as a lawyer by further faking a\ngraduation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The show is filled with tension about who and when will find\nhim out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I wasn\u2019t worried about whether he can do the work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt pretty sure he was going to get caught, but not that\nhe wouldn\u2019t have the knowledge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is some knowledge easily acquired on the job? Can you fake It\nuntil you make it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Veronica had another view. She said, \u201cMommy, I know what you\nwould say, but there are social consequences to getting bad grades.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her concern was that should would lose social standing by\nnot having good grades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes knowing something is less important than people\nthinking you know. This is probably reliably true in 6<sup>th<\/sup> grade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband says that\u2019s all fine and good but if it\u2019s on the\nline\u2014like knowing how to fly a helicopter\u2014faking it will not serve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have created standards that the interweaving systems of our\nsociety rely on. There are construction standards that require the wall to be\nable to support 5 times the weight of whatever is fastened to it. That leaves\nenough margin for error to be reliable. Our certified doctors and plumbers have\nto have a broad range of skills to be certified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It depends, I think. I find great joy in learning even if it\nis not for credit. And yet, the social standing and the recognition are\nvaluable and worth fighting for. Most of the time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since she\u2019s doing school at home, Veronica has learned something very grownup: computers can be wrong. Mostly, they have been wrong in ways that count against her. 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