{"id":631,"date":"2005-05-13T22:08:31","date_gmt":"2005-05-14T05:08:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/?p=631"},"modified":"2012-05-08T11:24:22","modified_gmt":"2012-05-08T18:24:22","slug":"life-is-full-of-changes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writtenbymurphy.com\/wonderblog\/2005\/05\/life-is-full-of-changes\/","title":{"rendered":"life is full of changes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So&#8230;We have a new plan.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone knows that the real estate market in America has shot upwards, for all kinds of reasons.<\/p>\n<p>And I seem to have lucked out on my purchase of a condo here in the middle of LA. It was something of a fixer upper to begin with, but even so I almost didn&#8217;t buy it.<\/p>\n<p>See, Chris and I were getting more and more serious&#8230;And I just wasn&#8217;t sure. &#8220;Maybe I should wait until he and I have made some plans about our future together before I commit to a mortgage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stewed about it for a while, eventually deciding that I might resent him for not making a move on a timeline that was entirely invented by <em>me<\/em>&#8230;Etc.<\/p>\n<p>So I bought, and after a year he moved in with me. We are very happy.<\/p>\n<p>And we are both very happy that I bought the place. Because now, it&#8217;s worth practically a gazillion dollars more than i paid for it. yay!<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;Chris and I have spent a lot of conversations talking about future plans. And we talked about a little house by the mountains.<\/p>\n<p>He grew up by the mountains.<\/p>\n<p>Me too, but different mountains. His mountains are about 50 miles away, and little houses there are rather reasonable.<\/p>\n<p>When we were talking about getting a little house there, we thought I would have to become employed again. When thinking about what kind of job I would have to have, I got all worried about it.<\/p>\n<p>So I called to find out. Turns out they&#8217;ll let anybody borrow money.<\/p>\n<p>AND WE&#8221;RE OFF! We&#8217;ve run the numbers, we can afford it and everything looks good.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m painting and packing a learning about how to sell a home. Chris is learning about buying a home. It&#8217;s all very exciting.<\/p>\n<p>And very familiar. The moving, I mean. I hadn&#8217;t realized I&#8217;d been here a full two years. Well, two years come August.<\/p>\n<p>Moving is the constant in my life, it seems.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Chris? How many places have you lived since you became an adult?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know. Why?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve lived a lot of places. If you don&#8217;t count after I moved back home, because that made me not an adult again&#8230;Wait! That wasn&#8217;t my choice, so dammit, I&#8217;ll count it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sure, that counts&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Let&#8217;s see&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There was the commune that first summer.<br \/>\nThen back home for the fall<br \/>\nthen the Mirnyy one-room flat<br \/>\nthen the two room flat<br \/>\nThen Yakutsk, with the other teachers,<br \/>\nthen with Lena on the outside of town.<br \/>\nthen back to anchorage with my brother<br \/>\nthen in Muldoon with crazy roomate Cheryl<br \/>\nThen the next roommate near midtown<br \/>\nthen the first place with Jack, for a month<br \/>\nThen the second place with Jack&#8230;23rd street?<br \/>\nThen on Spenard<br \/>\nThen to Cupertino to stay with Bryan again<br \/>\nThen we found the place in Sunnyvale (a residence i remained in for tge longest period of my to-date adult life..a very nice place)<\/p>\n<p>then the other place in sunnyvale..Where my brother Chris and Suzanne tag-teamed as roomates&#8230;and from which I finally gave up on Jack<\/p>\n<p>then I stayed with my brother Bryan until I got the hot-box in Mountain View<\/p>\n<p>THen I found the place on Taylor in Sunnyvale&#8230;where I lived happily as a highly paid consultant and then a college student and then GRADUATE!<\/p>\n<p>And then I moved to LA, to Los feliz. That place was nice. Lived there a whole year<\/p>\n<p>Then I bought this place.<\/p>\n<p>And this summer I will move under the mountains.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, here&#8217;s the count:<\/p>\n<p>14 years of adult life<br \/>\n20 residences<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a lot of boxes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So&#8230;We have a new plan. Everyone knows that the real estate market in America has shot upwards, for all kinds of reasons. 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