In this new place I life, LA, appearances seem to be pretty important.
Homes are a part of that. Here’s an article for the LA times about the zeitgeist:
“Having the time and money to build your own home used to be one of the perks of wealth. McMansion buyers, by contrast, are the working wealthy. Many of them labor long hours to pay the massive mortgages on their massive houses. For them, it’s more practical to buy a previously designed place that projects an aura of wealth, prestige and personal achievementâ€”off-the-rack opulence, if you willâ€”rather than create a unique architectural symbol of high culture and refinement. If you want individuality, you can always sink some bucks into unique landscaping or remodel that useless formal dining room into a private pool hall.”
This makes me sad. Individuality is important. It’s one of the things that makes a neighborhood charming. Heck, it’s what makes people charming.
It seems wasteful to have a huge rattley home that doesn’t suit your family’s needs. You shouldn’t live your life for other people, and you shouldn’t buy a house just because other people will be impressed by it.
Especially the cost is so high, it takes you away from your family.
It’s important to pop your head up for air once in a while.
I remember a friend saying that people will spend a lot of time reducing discomfort, but don’t spend very much time increasing comfort.