I had to get out and be by myself. This is a whole lot of togetherness. I wanted my thoughts to myself.
I grabbed my headphones and went for a walk. I picked a sad soulful song, and as I walked I felt so free I sang out loud.
Like it was my first time and I didn’t know that I was out loud and in a wobbly key.
This time I did know, but I was glad to be alone.
Walking past all my neighbors’ backyard fences I wondered if I was actually alone. My voice could carry into their backyards.
I was okay with that.
It was worth it to me.
This shelter in place situation is asking me to learn a new way of being. Learn to get along with my housemates/family in new ways. New coping tools to get through the day.
And revive old coping tools.
I remember my cassette Walkman as a teenager. I remember learning what it meant to sing with the headphones in my ears. Embarrassing! I did not sound as good as I though. I learned not to sing out loud.
But today, why not?
This was a good song, and I could sing! Even if someone MIGHT hear me.
I could dance, even though people can see me.
This house arrest is not the boss of me. I am not going to play small. I get to choose.
I’m not hurting anybody with my steps. That’s what I came here for, to clear up my mind.
To remember who I am and what I love.
I haven’t lived through a pandemic before. But to borrow a phrase, I’ve had apocalypse-adjacent experiences. Remember the nuclear war that never happened?
This is happening, and I am willing to be messy while I am living through it. I want to be messy in the right direction.
Be messy more as my truest happiest self.
And that involves singing and dancing while loving and hiding from my family.
That’s me choosing life. Let there be light.