Reading Lolita in Tehran

I finished this a while ago. I was so completely moved by it that I have been carrying it around with me, wishing I could do a good enough review to do it justice.

But I am not going to write the perfect introduction/recommendation for this mandatory reading for the decade. I will do the best I can.

Nafisi is a professor of english literature. She is also Iranian. The first was her gift and calling. The second was a fact of fate.

How do you tell the story of Iran? They always say, “Begin at the begining.” Ah, but which begining?

Nafisi’s book begins with her plan to continue teaching after she has left the university for not submitting to the extreme rules for women.

She loves to teach, and she chooses some students who love to learn. THey must be all female, because a mixed class would be too risky. She has the women come to her home to study the forbidden works of literature.

But don’t get too excited; almost all books from the west were forbidden. The book in the title,Lolita, was studied. We all know that Lolita is a risque subject. But Jane Asten, and Henry James are also studied extensively.

The characters of the women in the group are important. Not everyone in Iran is a fundamental zombie. And not everyone longs for the freedoms of the west. There are a whole spectrum of desires felt in each individuals heart.

Nafisi goes back in time to tell how things began to be the way they are. What was this revolution against and what was it for? The tensions and factions, and who won and the results of what those winnings were.

And the battleground over women’s bodies. Why must a woman cover herself so completely? And why then, should she be sent home in shaame for wearing pink socks?

And what does Jane Austen have to do with all this?

Indeed, the women themselves wondered what they had to do with all of it. All this attention centered on them. They, who felt so powerless, were so feared.

Where can a person possibly find answers for these questions?
Nafisi finds them in books.

I could kiss her for that! I find them in the same place.

Nafisi interjects her stories of happenings with what can only be called classroom lectures. But the subject matter of the lecture is so relevant, one cannot think of them as interruptions.

In a place where women’s bodies, selves and personalities are kept so far out of sight that the manifestation seen by the public are only fictional characters, one must study real fictional characters to learn how to be real.

This is what Nafisi tells us in this book.

But she does not pretend to have answers for everything.

This book left me deeply sad for days. I felt the heavy blessing of my own freedom. I cannot more highly recommend this book. It is a new perspective.

Caine Mutiny

You know, the world is not the perfect place we all wish it was.

And I think most of us would readily admit, a least in the abstract, that we are imperfect too. Which is why the world is imperfect–it’s made up of us imperfect people.

This drama tells the story of Captain Queeq and his officers. The first mate relieved the captain of his command in the middle of a battle in World War 2.

This story starts after all the action happened; the first mate is on trial for mutiny. The main characters are the defense lawyer and the first mate.

I am not giving anything away by saying the defense attorney was not very pleased to be given this assignment. His reluctance to do his job is paralelled by the first mate’s reluctance to serve under Captain Queeq.

Of course, the resemblance of the attorney’s performance in the courtroom and the mate’s performance on board the ship seem at first glance entirely removed from one another.

But I think that those two are the real crux of the drama. The fact is, every one of us is often required to do things in the line of duty or work that are unpleasant. Sometimes they are possibly out and out wrong.

What do we do about that? how do we handle it with character? What is really important?

The attorney’s impassioned speech at the end about his mother raised some questions that seem simple at first hearing. But when you really take them to heart, it is a tough truth.

This is a great story.

4th of july nostalgia

So, when I was getting ready for the parade and fireworks last friday, I had to pick out my outfit. It was ragingly hot outside, so I needed something cool.

A couple months back, I had picked up this truly adorable vintage 50s sundress. Perfect! With some bike shorts underneath so my thighs don’t stick together, it was the coolest cutest ensemble.

And, it felt right to be wearing vintage on the 4th of July.

So I bopped around getting ready, listening to the radio talk about the founding fathers. THinking about them, thinking about us today. What was this holiday really about? I am against unthinking nationalism. What is the best way to celebrate Independence Day?

Then I wondered…WHY is it appropriate to wear vintage on Independence Day? Must our patriotism be rooted in the past? Shouldn’t our sense of civic duty and patriotism be looking to the future?

Yes, the day commemorates an event that occurred in the past. But the idea is one of a nation by the people, for the people. And we is the people.

I wish that our sense of patriotism would extend beyond wearing T-shirts
with American flags or getting a red-white-and-blue manicure (Yes, I saw this. I really did).

At least, can more of us vote? That’s all I’m asking.

wow, I haven’t written in a while

Hey everyone!

I have been so amazingly busy that I haven’t even had time to pontificate over here.

THe big news is that I am pursuing the purchase of a condo. That has me at a high state of excitement and nervousness. I’m pleased that I am such a grown-up, and yet I’m terrified that I won’t be able to handle it.

I will send all my friends my new address as soon as I can.

Also, I’ve been doing other kinds of writing. You know, not all writing works well as quick posts of commentary. That’s blogging. But I’ve been working on longer stuff.

So everyone, thank you for reading, and that’s what I’ve got for today’s update.

Come back later!